What does a person who knows she/he is dying supposed to do?
Be happy or throw a tantrum-why me?
Carry on life as was doing hither to or introspect as to whether his/ her lifestyle was good.
Of course make a will if not made to earlier
But other than that what to do with the rest of the things. Like the extra clothes, books etc. I often find we cling on to things because we have some memories attached to them. But after we die, its foolish to think that the same sentiments will be attached to it by our kith and kin
No, I am perfectly fine but as I see many aged people in the family I get all these thoughts.
We party and we slog through our youth for the perfect family, comforts, house etc, then we grow old, some let the next generation come forth, some don’t and cause additional heartache to themselves and the next. And some worry that why did we ever work so much; no one cares for us any more. And some don’t even get the love or respect they deserve.
And then there are those who know that their final moment is coming soon. What are they supposed to do?
I know somebody who knew that she was going and still kept on buying things. When the person passed away, the family had a tough time disposing of things.
When my tumor had recurred and we came to know about it, I had thrown a tantrum.
I was scared that I may die in the OT
scared that I may come out alive but may lose my sight completely
Scared that no one will remember me once I am gone. Which is a bit outrageous I know, but then after a person dies, of course we miss them but then we do get used to not seeing them around, isn’t it?
I know this is a bit of a boring post and I had resolved to write posts which bring a smile but then sometimes you do need an out swinger.
In case you are wondering about the title….. death is a semi colon isn’t it, until you get a new body and a new life 🙂